Tuesday, 5 July 2011

Mak aku graduate!

Assalam...hmmm...Dh lamer aq x bukak n update blog nie.Sorry ek kpd pembaca n stalker blog aq nie.Aq ader hal ler yg menyebabkan aq x leyh update blog nie.Hihi...

Aq sbnrnyer bukan larh nk bincang pasal aq x bley update blog nie...Sbnrnyer,aq nk citer nieh...Bru2 nie,mak aq bru jer jd graduan kursus multimedia..Hihi...Bangga plak...Hahaha
Bkn sng nk graduate nie...Korg igt senang-wenang jer??

Nieh ler gambo time mak aq graduate aritu...Sudah empat tahun belaja dgn tekun akhirnyer,berjaya juga...
Agi satu...Mak aq bkn graduate biasa2 jer...Dier juga adalah salah seorang drpd pelajar cemerlang bidang multimedia nieh!!! Hahaha!!! Agi ler aq bangaa...Hihi...X baek melebih lak an? Annti org kater per? Riak la plak an? Ha...K ler,sampai sini jer aq dpt share ngan korg...Nnti ader citer len aq buat2 citer ler yer...
Agi satu...Belaja betol2 n rajin2...Jgn malas belaja k?
Mood: Happy!! =D

Sunday, 17 April 2011

What is Friendship?

True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal.

Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love. There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had. This is one relation that has been nurtured since time immemorial. There are famous stories about friends in mythologies of different religions all over the world. They say a person who has found a faithful friend has found a priceless treasure.

Psychologically speaking, friendship may be defined as 'a dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. As children become friends, they negotiate boundaries within which both partners function'. This helps them to function like healthy individuals in life as they learn to draw a line as and when needed in a relation. This greatly helps in the emotional development of an individual. However, any relation needs constant nurturing and development from all the people that are involved in one. Friendship cannot survive if one person makes all the effort to sustain it without any mutual recognition from others.

Since friendship starts the moment a child starts socializing, the kind of friends that the child chooses should be taken care of till the time he / she learns to differentiate between right and wrong. Wrong peers or lack of socializing can lead to severe psychological traumas and disorders, finally leading to social maladjustment. The correct peer group is essential for the development of the personality of a child. Both positive and negative experiences refine the personality of the individual. Thus it is essential that you find friends who are compatible with you on an emotional and psychological basis.

Mood:~Baek2 Jer~Hihi =D